This generation has lost respect for eldership.  One day, after a lifetime of discovery, regrets, successes and spectacular failures, I hope that those that were disrespectful are met with a biblically appropriate response from the generations coming up behind them, respect.  I mean that.  Because what the word of God has to say on a matter is more important than what we feel or think.  When we sum it all up, we realize that as much as we love God, we will all fall short.